Harp
Simple-to-use, fast, private tools for mitigating and resolving interpersonal conflict.
Unstuck your solution space
We can't think creatively when we're triggered.
When a disagreement gets heated, it feels like only one person can have their way. The Unstuck tool:
- Uncovers the deeper desires beneath each position
- Generates a menu of options that serve both sides (not just compromises)
- Ends with low-stakes next steps that honor your right to feel differently later
Use solo or together. Takes ~5-10 minutes.
Try Unstuck your solution space →Feel better
Unmet emotional pain needs a safe place to go.
When emotional pain is acute, the Feel Better tool:
- Offers non-judgment and care
- Helps untangle what your emotions might be trying to tell you
- Grounds you in your body, so the sensations can be processed and released
Use solo. Takes ~5-10 minutes.
Try Feel better →Approach plan
Difficult conversations go better when we're prepared.
Before a difficult conversation, the Approach Plan tool:
- Can help with personal problems or group problems (for community leaders)
- Gets you in the right headspace to empathize with them and yourself at the same time
- Builds a take-with-you cheat sheet to reference in the moment
Use solo. Takes ~5-10 minutes.
Try Approach plan →